QUOTE (Booster4324 @ Oct 11 2008, 11:56 AM)

http://archive.supermarketguru.com/page.cfm/35468The stuff is preground mostly. Some restaurants grind their own, but I doubt many chains do.
Good read on the risks and demographics.
http://www.ers.usda.gov/publications/foodr...00/may2000g.pdfThe problem with the bartender/server being your advocate is that they could get in hot water with the manager. I have a feeling you are a good tipper and if you are a regular I would bet the bartender/server would be your advocate. Someone that doesn't know you though...not so much.
Personally, I like my steaks medium rare. Burgers between med and medium well as I dislike the texture of a bloody burger.
I understand the risk of eating a burger medium-rare, and actually don't mind if it is medium (which it usually is, if ordered medium rare). I'll live with the risk. It isn't as if the other restaurants won't make it to order. As Jack notes, freakin Fudruckers will make it medium rare...but they grind their own meat.
QUOTE
Here we come on the run
With a burger on a bun
And a dab of coleslaw on the side,
Oh your taste we will tickle
With a great dill pickle
And all of our potatoes are french fried, fried, fried,
Our burgers can't be beat,
'Cause we grind our own meat,
Grind, grind, grind, grind, grind,
When you drive away,
You'll really hear us say,
We bid you bye, bye, bye, bye, bye,
We bid you bye, bye, bye, bye, bye!
And as your on your way,
A tip upon our tray
We hope to find, find, find, find, find
We hope to find, find, find, find, find.
-Wilma and Betty
With that said, I think you missed a couple of my points. This was a STEAK restaurant. I would hope they grind their own meat, but (as you note) likely they don't. They should still be serving something they have confidence in, IMO. By announcing they won't cook it less than medium (or medium well...whatever it was) they are also announcing they don't have strict quality control over their burger meat.
As for the waitron, I understand your point. As I noted, she could have LIED to me and made me happy. "I checked with the kitchen, just to see if they could do something, but they have a strict policy". She didn't even have to actually check. In great restaurants (not just fancy restaurants, either) the server doesn't start by saying "no" to a customer's request. The bartender/waitress on the previous visit simply took care of the issue for me...and, yes, I over tip most of the time.